SHIFT+DELETE

    SHIFT+DELETE

   "There are only two types of girls in the world. One category is beautiful girls with whom you can easily fall in love at first sight. The other category is also beautiful but takes time to identify them as beautiful". As per my personal experience, the relationship with second category lasts long. But the time to identify her as beautiful should not take much time, at least not until she hands you her wedding card. 

                     Everyone wishing Sunitha as she got best performer award for this year. I also wished her and asked for a treat. To my wonder, she said yes. My friend says, "If you treat a girl you will never forget her, if a girl treats you she will never forget the Treat". I guess, it means they are serious about money. Anyway, I met Sunitha almost a year back. She is just another girl on the first day I met her. We daily use to chat. We use to go for lunch together. Sometimes, we went to movies also. But, after a year whatever she does is different from other girls. I really don't know when exactly I started liking her. Actually, I am in love with her now. Problem here is I don't know how to find whether she has a boyfriend or not. I had asked my friend "How to find whether a girl has Boyfriend or not". The reply was like this "It’s very easy, if you have her phone number. Call her after 11, if you get call waiting, she has boyfriend". May be its correct, but cannot call her after 11 without a good reason.
                    Coming to the treat, we went to Barista. Conversation went on for few mins. I have strongly decided to know whether she has a boyfriend or not by end of the treat. I started like this, I have recently seen a movie by name "Varudu". I asked her "Did you see that movie?". She said "NO". I said "In that movie, hero would not see heroine, not even her photo but agrees for marriage". I added "It will never happen in real life". She smiled. I thought this is the correct time to talk about her marriage plans. After a while, I said "My parents are forcing me to get married". But I told them "I need sometime for marriage". Actually, I like love marriages not arranged. How about you? She said " I like Love story movies, but not Love marriages". And she said that she got engaged already. I didn't believe her. I thought she might be kidding. She said that her marriage would be on next month. She even suggested that arranged marriages are better. Bad part of it was, she asked me to come for her marriage at least before 2 days. My mind stopped working. Suddenly, everyone 

around me became dumb. I could not hear anything except my heart beat. She said many things about her Fiance which I really didn't pay attention. I am not Kamal Hasan to change my face expressions so that she cannot recognize that I am sad. Anyways, I tried to keep smiling. I don't know what to talk afterwards. I hardly remember,she paid the bill and said "You need to come to my marriage with your girlfriend". I never said her that I have girlfriend.  It doesn't mean that I have girlfriend, just because that I said "I like love marriages". I didn't want to correct her though. That’s the most painful day in my life. I usually never skip dinner, but this time skipped. Suddenly, I remembered that I didn't even say congrats to her. I took my phone and called, "it was call in waiting". I looked at the clock, it's 11:10. I was bit happy that my friend's formula worked. She called me back after few mins. I said "Hey I forgot to say congrats". She said It's OK, Thanks.  Actually, I like her voice in phone than normal. It's hard to tell to myself that I should not call her, should not look at her, should not even think about her. But there is no other way, I have to. I didn't sleep for the whole night. I couldn't go to office next day as well. Forgot to tell you, this is not first time that I got late in selecting my girl. Same thing happened in my B.Tech also. The moment I found my sweet heart in my 3rd year B.Tech, she already had a boyfriend from 1st year itself. 

                     After a week, I have received a mail of her with subject "My wedding invitation". Later found her FB status also changed from single to engaged. I was very eager to see her Fiancé pic. Every guy wants to see his crush's fiancé/husband photos, compares with him and concludes "I am much better than this guy". Of course, I am not exceptional. It took so many days for me to forget Suni. I tried to DELETE her from my mind, but didn't work. Later I found, in order to completely delete we need to SHIFT our mind to someone else. "Thanks to Bill Gates for his SHIFT+DELETE formula". I just realized that the friend I was talking about is also second category of girls. This time, I should not hesitate.

                    

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